Showing posts with label decide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label decide. Show all posts

6.10.2018

Unexpected Upset - Part 2 - Fight


by Chamuel

The fear triggered by some unexpected upset causes you to become upset or get really scared and you react in 1 of 7 ways by going into some sort of avoidance pattern. Most people believe they are flight, fight or freeze. Below is the second way you can react.

When you become scared or upset, suddenly, as a reaction to something, you may go into fight mode. Perhaps you are simply in the doctor's office and he wants to run a test, your reaction immediate reaction is NO. You think ‘You doctors are alike. You just want to run tests and cost me more money.’ So, you are immediately attacking or confronting the doctor which is a form of fighting. Any sort of resistance, which is putting up your hand and saying ‘No, I'm not going to do that or actually moving forward is aggression toward another, which is a form of fighting. So, you become scared and upset, which of course covers up your fear, or it is a result of becoming afraid and fearful, you are not trusting that everything is all right. Therefore, you put up resistance. That resistance does not allow you to come to a place of peaceful resolution and certainly does not allow discussion or cooperation. It puts walls between you and the other person instead of holding their hand and working your way through as a team, you are putting a wall between you and them that screams NO way, stay away, keep out, etc.

So, to eliminate this immediate response of fight fighting and aggression, we would have you do the following clearing by saying out loud:

Chamuel: Heal, clear and remove my fight response to upset and fear. In all dimensions time and space, so I can instead have peaceful resolution. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Do the breathing exercise of at least 3 breaths.

Breathe out:  Fighting and resisting
Breathe in:    Peaceful resolution

Then if a program gets triggered later, you can remember to Converse rather than Confront, or Figure it out rather than Fight.

Next month will be Part #3 - Feed



10.14.2014

033 Today by Jeshua

Today is a special day. It is your day and you decide what you are going to do. So, choose to love rather than hate. Choose to care rather than be cold and uncaring or apathetic.  Choose to be centered instead of fragmented and scattered. Most of all, love yourself and your body. You chose this body to be your earthly home, so respect it, care for it and most of all, love it and that love will radiate out to others.

8.27.2014

032 Choosing by Urial

When you choose, it means you decide.  When you decide, it means you are standing in your own power.  When you are standing in your own power, it means that you are not a victim, or at the mercy of anyone else.  You are.  This is the point of creation for you in your world.  Nothing, absolutely nothing in your world is, unless you have decided it was so, at some point.

The 'when' of deciding could have been thousands of lifetimes ago, or a split second ago in your timeframes.  But it was decided by you.

So, perhaps, just perhaps, you may want to pay a bit more attention to what you are deciding in your now....