035 COMPASSIONATE GRIEF

By Chamuel 

Compassion is a feeling or a creation in which you decide to acknowledge that another person is experiencing something that you have experienced in the past. So, for example, with any of the four things that was lost: the house key, the pet, the car or the beloved, each of you has lost something like that. Each of you has had a different experience or is having a different experience regarding the same object.  In any case, whether it is the love of or the possession of something, there is a feeling of belonging, a feeling of ownership, a feeling of having, being, and doing, in relationship to that thing. So feeling compassion for the other person is now a solution. It is the way of being there for them. It is the way to be in the space with that person. You can say: Just like me, this person is experiencing loss. Just like me, this person is experiencing sadness. Just like me, this person is experiencing anxiety, or stress, or tension, or any other emotion that you notice they are going through, because they have lost something.

By saying to yourself: ‘Just like me,’ it reminds you that you have been in that space in your past. It is not that you are feeling their pain, because you do not need to go there. But it reminds you that you also have been in that space. It lets you allow them to occupy their space with you knowing a feeling of what that feels like. You cannot possibly know what they are feeling unless you are using your extrasensory powers and can actually feel them, but you do know what you felt like in a similar situation.

Whether your feelings are exactly what they are feeling or whether your feelings know what you experienced, it does not matter. You are being or deciding to be in this space of sharing their grief, not that you are feeling it. It is acknowledging that each of you have experienced loss. You understand losing. You understand it is a process. You understand there is movement from the loss into recovery. Each person goes at their own pace through this process. Each person has their own belief structures and moves through them accordingly.

Sometimes people get stuck on one of the steps of recovery and they stay there for a very long time, perhaps the rest of their life. That is their choice, but through compassion, you can know that you at least have some idea of what it is to lose. Whether it is the house key or the beloved or something in between, you know what it feels like to experience loss.

You also know what it feels like when you decide to let go of losing and you decide to move to a different level. You decide it is another day. You decide that it is okay to laugh and perhaps you even decide to celebrate the life of that person lived. Or you decide to celebrate that you now have a new key. You can move into this celebration mode at any time. You may choose to vacillate between celebration and loss or grief. In any case, it is all your decision. It is your choice. You do not have to choose to change at all. You simply can just be.

For the person who is choosing to be with the person who is grieving, all you need to do is to remember: Just like me, this person is experiencing loss. That alone will put you in a space where you can listen to them going through their process, without joining in their feelings or judging. Just like me, this person has experienced loss. Just like me, this person has also experienced joy and loving and liking and sadness. Just like me, this person has experienced boredom. Just like me, this person has experienced feeling like their heart is broken. Just like me, this person has experienced everything and anything that I have experienced at some point in time. Each of us is experiencing. Each of us will experience more, and we can experience together and I choose to do that.

 

034 Grief by Samara

The process of removing any creation is the same. Let us take grief for example. You feel grief which is the loss of someone or something. It can be a house key. It could be a pet, your car or your beloved. The process to change your mind and therefore change your creation is the same process at the mental level or in the mental body .What is entirely different in each situation is your feelings, which of course is your emotional body.

You attach a different set of feelings to a house key, which represents your safety; your personal safety, because your house is locked from intruders or people. Those feelings are very different than your loss of a pet. Your pet is a possession but it is also alive, so there is a component of love there. The loss of a car is a representation of your freedom. So it now means that you have the inconvenience of either getting another car, if you can afford one or using some sort of other transportation. It may be as humbling as using your own two feet to walk to your destination. And the last example is your beloved. When you lose a beloved person, it has or can feel as if your heart is broken, because you no longer have that physical presence in your life. Their programming was that they were going to move on to their next creation. Your programming is or was that you wanted them here to be in the relationship that you had, that you loved, that you treasure. However, since they have moved on, you can no longer have that love, that treasured creation any longer. It has to shift because they have shifted.

So it is very different to lose a loved one, rather than a key, a pet or car. Each has emotions. The level of depth and breadth of those emotions are very different. The house key would probably be the least. The beloved would probably be the most, in the emotional range. Some of you may be delighted that your beloved died because they weren’t really your beloved, but that is the face you put on to others. Behind the scenes you secretly detested them and were elated that they had moved on because it was finally over.

You may have disliked your car because of some minor malfunction that you hadn’t yet been able to fix. So now you can get a different car that didn’t have that malfunction. You may have been tired of the pet peeing and pooping and leaving fur everywhere. Perhaps you no longer wanted the expense, but, because of your emotional attachment, you did not feel that you could give the pet away, because that was contrary to your belief structure.

 In any of the four events you could have had a plus side, according to your own emotional structure, and, last but not least, you could celebrate by choice, each of those events because you could have a belief structure that it happened for a reason. Later you might or would discover what that reason was in your belief structures; or perhaps you have learned that all things are creations and this one simply was over. It is time for you to have a new creation come forth. The new creation could not come forth until and unless the old creation was gone. Now it is gone.

It simply had its life and you move on as easy as you move from going to bed at night to one day, to waking up the next morning to a new day. You do not experience the five or six or eight hours that you are sleeping in your now, because you were no longer in your now. So you enter a new now when you wake up in the morning and it is a different day. Perhaps yesterday it was cold and raining and today the sun has peeked out. The sun is shining. As the day goes on it is getting warmer and warmer. Perhaps yesterday you didn’t have a job and today you are hired to a new job. Perhaps yesterday you lost your house key and today you were able to obtain a new house key that even has a design on it. It is bigger and easier to find. And it no longer sticks in the lock. So your experience has shifted. You are the one who shifted it. It did not shift you.

You have programming that somehow kicked in and allowed you to experience the shift. You may have created this program 18 or 30 or even 100 lifetimes ago but at some point you created the program that is now coming to fruition in your shift from being unhappy to again moving forward in happiness and freedom. It does not mean that you will forget necessarily, that you had a house key, that you had a pet, a car or a beloved, or the number of times that you remember that you had them or you remember the love or you remember the loss of some or each. All of those things will happen. They may happen seldom. They may happen frequently. They may be triggered to happen by the sight or the sound or the smell of something that reminds you of that creation. You may be 30 years down the road and see a particular shade of blue that reminds you of the color of your mother’s eyes, or you may be 50 years down the road and talking to someone and remember the pet that you had. You remember that cute little dog with his floppy little ears. You can remember the smell of the dog. You can remember the dog running through the yard and jumping up and licking your face. Even though it was so many years ago, you are instantly in your memory mode - there. The trick is, do you want to stay in the memory mode or do you want to get back into your present, doing whatever it is you’re doing in your present creation? The choice is up to you.

033 Today by Jeshua

Today is a special day. It is your day and you decide what you are going to do. So, choose to love rather than hate. Choose to care rather than be cold and uncaring or apathetic.  Choose to be centered instead of fragmented and scattered. Most of all, love yourself and your body. You chose this body to be your earthly home, so respect it, care for it and most of all, love it and that love will radiate out to others.

032 Choosing by Urial

When you choose, it means you decide.  When you decide, it means you are standing in your own power.  When you are standing in your own power, it means that you are not a victim, or at the mercy of anyone else.  You are.  This is the point of creation for you in your world.  Nothing, absolutely nothing in your world is, unless you have decided it was so, at some point.

The 'when' of deciding could have been thousands of lifetimes ago, or a split second ago in your timeframes.  But it was decided by you.

So, perhaps, just perhaps, you may want to pay a bit more attention to what you are deciding in your now....

031 How Guardian Angels Help You

The beings I work and play with are labeled archangels, some are angels, some are multi-conscious souls, saints or non-physical beings...and I choose to just call them all 'angelics.'

The list includes what each one specializes in, as they have explained it:

Archangel Raphael         Master healer, addictions, travel, lost pets and Clair's.
Archangel Uriel               Magic, alchemy, problem solving and tests.
Archangel Sandalphon  Wisdom [he was formerly Elijah, the profit in the Bible]  Archangel Ariel               Magic and manifestation 
Jeshua [aka Jesus]        Love, healing and peace 
Chamuel                         Career, relationships & finding golf balls & lost things 
Sedna                              Providing abundance and prosperity Haniel                              Grace, healing, and psychic 
Grace                               Fairness, justice and court proceedings & healings
Bethany                           Sacred healing  
Earth Diva                       Peace and healing the Earth's inhabitants 
Medical Corps online     Physical healing & they usually work with angel Grace
St. Bernadette                 Physical healing  

St. Bernadette is the first angel I saw, and healed my tonsils so I could keep them. I called her the 'lady,' and she is.

You can ask any of these angels at any time to help you with whatever your current issue is. Whether you can hear them or not - they hear you and do their best to help you with that issue. Simply choose which Angel is most helpful to the problem you are facing or you can choose two or three. You simply say "Open sacred space and connect me with..." and then state their names. Then simply tell them aloud what you want healed or changed, knowing that they will do whatever they can to help you and then simply say, "Thank you. Thank you. Thank you."

The All That Is or God or whatever you call that Ultimate Power will then do the healing accordingly. We all know the answers are: yes, no and wait. We just can't predict which one is when or about what. I find that most of the time the angelics are able to help bring resolution or at least a lessening of the issue. I hope this information helps you to further help yourself.   

Your personal guardian angels help you make your life easier while you are on the planet. You can utilize their services three ways, which are as follows:

Safety
Your guardians are with you to help you remain safe. Before you leave on a trip or a journey, you simply ask your guardian angels to assist you and keep you safe, and to make sure you return home with all your possessions intact. If you are going to an area that you feel is less than safe, you can again ask them to assist you.  You can ask them to guard you and your property and they will.

Health
Any time that you are not feeling well, you can ask your guardians to help you.  If you wake up with a sore throat, you can ask them to have it healed.  If you have an ongoing illness, you can ask them daily to make it better or to heal it.  I ask them about food and if it is right for me.  I ask them to guide me in the grocery store or in the restaurant so I select foods and beverages that are helpful to my body.

Cooperation
Before you go into a meeting, you can ask your guardian angels to connect with the guardian angels of the person you are meeting with and to have all of the guardians work together for peaceful resolution. If you are going to have a fun event such as a card party, you can ask your guardian angels to connect with the guardian angels of all of the participants and to make sure that each person that is attending actually wants to have fun. I have done this in the past, and occasionally someone will call and they are too busy or they have had a stressful day and need to rest or whatever else but the bottom line is, that they are canceling having fun today. I then again ask the angels to help me find another fun attendee, and they do.

They will not help you manipulate anyone or do anything that is not in integrity.  For example, they will NOT help you harm another, or get your own way in an argument or steal.  They are always in integrity.

So, ask and you will receive. I hope you enjoy playing with the angels like I do.

I wish you many blessings

Rev. Marjorie

030 Just Be - Part 2 by Archangel Raphael

By just being implies you do not have do anything to make it better, to fix it, to change it, to search for, to figure out how to do one of those things or anything else. You are simply content with what is happening.

It does not mean that you are not going to do things. It simply means that, as you are doing, you are mostly out of resistance and enjoying being the one who is doing those things. The problem that most of you experience is that you are not enjoying being the one who is experiencing those things. An example might be if you have created monetary problems in your life and you are going to have to declare bankruptcy or flee the country because so many people want you to pay them back; being content with that situation might be that you end up in prison for embezzlement or some other criminal activity that you perpetrated in order to have that money. So being content in that situation would be very difficult. You would be scrambling to do anything to retain your feeling of freedom so that you can do what you want.

Of course, you cannot be content in that scenario, because it is a negative situation that you have created but if you were in totally ‘just be’ you could you would simply surrender and they could take you to jail or put you through a trial or set you up on a payment plan governed by your government. If it had to do with paying back taxes there are many scenarios that could happen for you to make restitution, but you could enjoy making that restitution allowing yourself to ‘just be’ in that restitution making scenario. If you are not sure if you have this dichotomy, be assured that you do.

We are now going to eliminate these programs for you so that you can experience ‘just being’ without having to do anything. If you agree, say ‘yes’ out loud. It is a choice, and you will have to break some of your negative patterning. You will need to you remind yourself: I choose to ‘just be,’ which, is doing something, But when you specify: I choose to ‘just be,’ it stops your brain from thinking of all the things that you have to do which puts you in ‘just be.’

029 Just Be by Archangel Raphael

Many of you on your planet have an issue with being. You know that you incarnated or perhaps you have forgotten but in any event you did incarnate on this planet. Part of this incarnation is separating from the one. When you separate from the one there is always duality because you are separated. you want to be with the one but you cannot be with the one so that creates your biggest ambivalent flow. I want to be but I can't be in that sets up a lifetime patterning for you that circles and resurfaces and surfaces and resurfaces in many ways in your lifetime.

You can eliminate the blockages, the ambivalent flows, the limitations and other programming so that you can be what is known as ‘content’ on your planet. Some people call it going with the flow or being out of resistance. The bottom line is that you are simply being present with whatever is happening without resistance.

Any time you can just be without having any sort of resistance, you are in acceptance or contentment or some other form of feeling good. Because there is no resistance, you are not feeling bad, therefore it is acceptable. The word acceptable instead of contentment would be much better for you to understand where you are and how to basically remain in this state. Remember your primary function is that you want is to be with the one so you feel you have to do something to get there. However, no matter what you do unless you leave your earthly body you cannot be with the one. Therefore to attain the state of acceptable, or contentment, or what people call happiness is to eliminate your programs of resistance, which include limitations and many other programs that you create to block yourself from being. You have a statement from some of your light workers that states ‘be all that you can be.’ In essence, that is an excellent message to ‘be all that you can be’ means that it is all that you can be while you are in your existing body with your existing planetary limitations. You are not part of the one so you cannot totally be with the one, but you can ‘just be.’