Unexpected Upset - Fornicating Part 5

When you have an unexpected upset or upsetting fear, many times you will or can be in a situation where you turn to someone you normally wouldn't turn to for solace and that solace is the need for human connection. However, your intended reaction should have been getting rid of overwhelm and noticing what is actually happening, and instead you reach for the person next to you and become sexual as a way to release your emotions inappropriately.

Let us say, perhaps you are in an extreme situation such as a war. It may not be a war as in guns, etc. perhaps you are in a war with your partner, you are both out at a party somewhere and you have an unexpected confrontation with your partner and turned to someone else at the party for solace. Perhaps you have ingested some sort of a cocktail whether food, drugs or booze and your inhibitions are slightly reduced and so you end up fornicating with someone else other than your partner because of the argument and your fear that they will no longer love you. The fear that they will no longer love you, is not conscious in your mind. You only know that they acted very strange. You got overwhelmed and did not know what to do. But you know that you are terribly afraid, and you feel like they don't love you anymore, so you seek solace in the arms of another, which only adds to the complication of your already existing overwhelm and malfunctioning set of coping mechanisms.

A second method can often be masturbation, you become very upset and you don't know what to do so, you go in the nearest place you can, at the first moment you can and masturbate to make yourself feel better because the sexual release, whether through masturbation or fornication allows you to momentarily feel good. However, this is usually followed by some sort of feelings of blame, guilt or of shame. This does not resolve your original issue and now you have two issues to deal with. So, to eliminate this programming, which we labeled fornicating we ask that you do the following. Say aloud:

Chamuel: Heal, clear and remove my need for sexual gratification or fornicating programming because of an unexpected upset or upsetting fear, in all dimensions of time and space. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Breathing exercise.

Breathe out:  Fornicating because of unexpected upset or upsetting fear

Breathe in:    Peaceful resolution.